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Relationships can fuel or drain eNERGY

PATIENCE IS KEY

RELATIONSHIPS SHOULD ALWAYS BE MUTUALLY BENEFICIAL.


A lot of us don't want to take a look in that accountability mirror. Fact! A lot of us are full of shit. Big Fact! When it comes to relationships a lot of people tend to settle because of the feeling of being alone or to have a guaranteed nut buster around. This leads to unplanned pregnancy, headaches, unnecessary stress, drama, and a bunch of other shit nobody wants.


We need to take time, Learn ourselves , know ourselves, then love ourselves before we try to give ourselves to someone else. It's extremely hard to identify who you are if your always around other people. It's nothing wrong with sporadic days of alone time.


Love when you're ready not when you're lonely


Don't settle for being unhappy just so you can say you have somebody in your life. Always remember misery loves company and doesn't have standards.

I never understood why people allow themselves to be repeatedly hurt or disrespected but i digress.


Key Aspects of Positive Relationships

  • Trust
  • Honesty
  • Communication
  • Giving each other space from time to time
  • Forgive and ask for forgiveness
  • Be candid about your feelings good or bad EXPRESS YOURSELF
  • Think before you speak. See things from all perspectives
  • Loyalty
  • Security/ Safety
  • Respect
  • Compromise


DON'TS in Romantic Relationships:

  • Go through partners phone
  • Micromanage
  • Not express feelings or problems(Lack Communication)
  • Lie about getting over past situations
  • LIE
  • Continue to be with someone you don't trust


DON'TS IN Personal Relationships

  • LIE
  • Make plans then not communicate change of plans
  • Become a liability 


DON'TS IN BUSINESS RELATIONSHIPS

  • BECOME A LIABILITY
  • LIE



IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS IT'S BEST TO KEEP THINGS SIMPLE

Is it real?

Personal Friends

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You can tell if someone is truly your friend without any hidden agendas if:

  • You can tell them bad news and they'll attentively listen and won't try to compete with a worse story of something that happened to them. If they say things like I feel you or I understand how you feel they are full of shit.
  • You can tell them good news and they'll help you celebrate.
  • They'll call you just to see how your day was or just to check on you.



Workplace Associates/Collegues

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CAUTION!!!:

Some People in the corporate world or just in any workplace in general, are two-faced shady snakes. They will try to undermine or use you as a scapegoat at any given opportunity. Some will even actively go out of their way to sabotage you or make you look bad for their benefit.


BE CAREFUL

Go to work to work. If you get any type of negative vibe from a co-worker, note it and adjust accordingly.

If you make friends cool but always remember making money is why you're there.

YOU HAVE THE POWER

Surround Yourself With People Who Want The Best For The Best Part Of You. 


IF THEY AREN'T FACILITATING DEVELOPMENT OR IMPROVEMENT REMOVE THEM FROM YOUR LIFE.


DON'T ENABLE SUFFERING AND MISERY IN YOUR LIFE BY GIVING TACIT CONSENT AND APPROVAL TO NEGATIVE AND UNPRODUCTIVE PEOPLE TO BE IN YOUR SPACE.